Second Sunday of May. The following comes from Rev. Stefan Jonassen's “A Canadian Unitarian Almanac And Liturgical Calendar:”
In 1872, Unitarian Julia Ward Howe began advocating the creation of a “Mother’s Day for Peace” to be held on June 2 each year. The following year, eighteen cities held such a gathering. Bostonians continued to observe the day for more than a decade, while some cities continued the observance until the turn of the century, when the annual “Mother’s Day for Peace” appears to have died out. In 1907, Anna Jarvis, a Methodist, began a campaign to establish a permanent Mother’s Day. By the following year, the YMCA had taken up the cause and, in 1914, Woodrow Wilson signed a congressional resolution establishing Mother’s Day in the United States. In time, the day came to be marked in many other countries. Jarvis was troubled by the commercialization of the day, saying, "I wanted it to be a day of sentiment, not profit." Inalterably opposed to the sale of flowers (but not the giving of homegrown blossoms), she also lamented the advent of the Mother’s Day card, describing it as "a poor excuse for the letter you are too lazy to write." Interestingly enough, Mother’s Day is the most heavily attended Sunday in North American churches, outside of the Christmas and Easter seasons! In Unitarian Universalist congregations, the day has increasingly taken on a sense of being a day to mark the contributions of all women.
The history of Mother’s Day reminds us that it is more than a day for flowers and pancakes. It's a time to highlight the aspects of motherhood that are not usually visible in the greeting card aisles. It’s a call to honor the resiliency of all those who mother, especially those who bear the brunt of hurtful policies or who are weighed down by stigma in our culture. It’s an opportunity to take action to create the conditions so that all families can thrive.
Strong Families is a national initiative to change policy and culture in support of all families. Their annual Mama’s Day Our Way campaign lifts up and celebrates the magic and heartbreak of being a mama. Learn more and find Unitarian Universalist Mama's Day Resources in our Social Justice pages.
Unitarian Universalist Perspectives
- UU World Articles on Mother's Day
- "The Mom in the Mirror," Call and Response blog post from Jessica York
Find Out More
- Julia Ward Howe
- Tapestry of Faith, Resistance and Transformation, Workshop 4: The Nineteenth Century Women's Peace Movement
Search Words for Worship Services
Prayer for Holidays with Families (WorshipWeb)by Susanne IntriligatorTagged as: Brokenness, Challenge, Direct Experience, Family, Forgiveness, Healing, Humanism, Searching, Secular, Tradition
The Many Names for Mother / Father / Parent (WorshipWeb)by Janet H. BoweringTagged as: Children, Coming-of-Age, Family, Fathers, Mothers, Relationships, Teamwork
The Wide Spectrum of Mothering (WorshipWeb)by Amy YoungTagged as: 3rd Principle (Acceptance & Spiritual Growth), Children, Despair, Direct Experience, Failure, Family, Love, Mothers, Parents
Prayer for Caregivers and Ancestors (WorshipWeb)by Sara GoodmanTagged as: Caring, Family, Generations, Grief, Imagination, Responsibility, Unitarian Universalism
Our Children Will Rise with Us (WorshipWeb)by Cheryl StrayedTagged as: 1st Principle (Worth & Dignity), 2nd Principle (Justice, Equity, & Compassion), 3rd Principle (Acceptance & Spiritual Growth), Children, Despair, Direct Experience, Failure, Family, Fathers, Humanism, Integrity, Mothers, Parents, Secular
Every Mother Has a Different Story (WorshipWeb)by Cheryl StrayedTagged as: 1st Principle (Worth & Dignity), 4th Principle (Truth & Meaning), Children, Direct Experience, Family, Fathers, Humanism, Identity, Love, Money, Mothers, Parents, Relationships, Sacrifice, Secular
Humanizing Mom (WorshipWeb)by Jane Ranney RzepkaTagged as: Children, Direct Experience, Generations, Mothers, Parents, Relationships
May Means Mother's Day (WorshipWeb)by Katie Lee CraneTagged as: Children, Family, Fathers, Mothers, Parents
Mother's Day Proclamation (WorshipWeb)by Julia Ward HoweTagged as: Children, Parents, Peace
Mutual Mothering (WorshipWeb)by Jade AngelicaTagged as: 1st Principle (Worth & Dignity), 3rd Principle (Acceptance & Spiritual Growth), Aging, Caring, Children, Direct Experience, Family, Forgiveness, Mothers, Transformation