Bridging from Youth to Young Adulthood
Unitarian Universalists recognize that the transition from youth to young adulthood is a moment to be celebrated, a process to be supported, and requires a lifelong commitment from all of us. We use the term “bridging” to refer both to the ritual used to honor this transition and the process of leaving youth community and finding one’s place in young adult community. UUs of all ages can support young people making this transition by increasing our capacity for multigenerational ministry and reaching out to emerging adults.
A Moment
The bridging ritual is often celebrated during a worship service in our congregations, in youth communities, and at camps and conferences. We also celebrate bridging nationally during the Synergy worship service at our annual General Assembly. In preparation for this celebration, some communities work through the Bridging Handbook.
In addition to planning the ceremony, many communities purchase simple gifts for the bridgers to take with them. You can check out the UUA bookstore for ideas, such as a copy of Becoming or the guide Worship for Young Adults.
An Ongoing Process
Like many transitions that young people go through, bridging can be joyful, sad and challenging. There are many ways to navigate this process and stay connected with Unitarian Universalism. Emerging adults can find a congregation or other young adult ministry in your area or join the Church of the Larger Fellowship.
Resources for Congregations Offering a Bridging Experience
Reimagining Bridging: A “Milestone” Framework for Youth Ministry
By Eric Dew Bliss
These bridging resources provide faith development and ritual of transition for UU youth who are transitioning to the first stage of adulthood. One of many “rites of passage,” bridging holds a special place in the heart of congregational life.
BridgingA Handbook for Congregations
By Jessica York, Gail Forsyth-Vail
Bridging will enhance your Youth and Young Adult Ministry programs, and help make the process of becoming a young adult a spiritually fulfilling community event for your congregation.
To This I Give My HeartA Coming of Age Journal
By Bart Frost
Coming of age in Unitarian Universalism is an important step on your path to adulthood—use this journal as a companion and tool on your journey.
BecomingA Spiritual Guide for Navigating Adulthood
By Kayla Parker
A spiritual companion for young adults and all who live amid transitions and tensions. Dozens of carefully selected readings address themes that are prominent for people in their twenties and early thirties. Free discussion guide available.