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Companioned Inside Your Grief
Companioned Inside Your Grief
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[S]piritual and meditative practices are not meant to erase pain. That's a symptom of our pain-avoidant culture, and not an accurate portrayal of the practices themselves. It's a misuse of so many beautiful teachings to force them into roles they were never meant to play.

Spiritual practices in any tradition, including mindfulness in its many forms, are meant to help you live what is yours to live, not make you rise above it. These tools are are meant to help you feel companioned inside your grief. They're meant to give you a tiny bit of breathing room inside what is wholly unbearable. That's not at all the same thing as making your pain go away.

Rather than help us rise above being human, teachings in any true tradition help us become more human: more connected, not less attached.

 

from It's OK That You're Not OK.

About the Author

  • Megan Devine is a writer, speaker, and advocate for change on a cultural level. She holds a Master's in counseling psychology. Since the tragic loss of her partner in 2009, Megan has created Refuge in Grief as a sanctuary for those in pain and encouragement for those who want to help. ...

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