Our Whole Lives: Lifespan Sexuality Education

The Grades 7-9 level is a foundational piece of the Our Whole Lives Lifespan Sexuality Education Curriculum series.

OWL sexuality education programs change lives.

Honest, accurate information about sexuality changes lives. It dismantles stereotypes and assumptions, builds self-acceptance and self-esteem, fosters healthy relationships, improves decision making, and has the potential to save lives. For these reasons and more, we are proud to offer Our Whole Lives (OWL), a comprehensive, lifespan sexuality education curricula for use in both secular settings and faith communities.

Interactive workshops and activities engage participants, while step-by-step instructions for program planners and facilitators help ensure success. Seven curricula speak to participants' needs, by age group:

Our Whole Lives helps participants make informed and responsible decisions about their relationships, sexual health and behavior. With a holistic approach (PDF), Our Whole Lives provides accurate, developmentally appropriate information about a range of topics, including relationships, gender identity and expression, sexual orientation, sexual health, and cultural influences on sexuality.

Our Whole Lives Offers

  • Accurate information presented in developmentally appropriate ways
  • Affective and emotional learning
  • Guiding values and principles
  • Activities that help participants clarify values and improve decision-making skills
  • A safe and supportive peer group
  • Acceptance of diversity
  • A social justice approach to inclusive sexuality education
  • Step-by-step instructions for program promotion, implementation, and facilitation
  • Parent orientation that affirms parents as their children’s primary sexuality educators
  • Facilitator trainings, continuing education, and email forums to increase knowledge, skills, confidence
  • Expert user support from the Unitarian Universalist's Association OWL Program Manager and the United Church of Christ's Minister of Sexuality Education and Justice.
  • Sexuality and Our Faith, an optional religious supplement for use in Unitarian Universalist and United Church of Christ settings.

Our Whole Lives Values

While Our Whole Lives is secular, it is not value-free. The program gives clear messages about the following key sexuality issues:

  • self worth
  • sexual health
  • responsibility
  • justice and inclusivity

Our Whole Lives recognizes and respects the diversity of participants with respect to biological sex, gender identity, gender expression, sexual orientation, and disability status in addition to cultural and racial background. The activities and language used throughout the program have been carefully chosen to be as inclusive as possible of this human diversity.

Who Uses Our Whole Lives?

Our Whole Lives is used in faith communities as well as by public, charter, and private schools; after-school programs; youth groups; home schoolers; colleges; correctional facilities; and groups in other settings. Our Whole Lives for Older Adults is well suited to senior centers and retirement communities. Although developed by two religious organizations, Our Whole Lives contains no religious references or doctrine.

Many Unitarian Universalist congregations and United Church of Christ churches offer Our Whole Lives programs. To find one near you, please use the Find a Congregation (Unitarian Universalist) or Find Churches Near Me (United Church of Christ) search engines. The Director of Religious Education or Director of Christian Education, respectively, will be able to answer questions about their programming.

Our Whole Lives: Approaches that Work

Our Whole Lives covers topics and skills that both parents and children want covered but which schools often exclude or address only briefly. National surveys show that most parents, along with educators and children and youth, want to expand sexuality education. Our Whole Lives is an excellent way to accomplish that goal.

Our Whole Lives is informed by the Guidelines for Comprehensive Sexuality Education produced by the National Guidelines Task Force, a group of leading health, education, and sexuality professionals assembled by the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS). In every category of assessment, the curriculum meets or exceeds the National Standards for Sexuality Education Core Curriculum, K-12 (PDF).

Sexuality and Religion

The Our Whole Lives program can be put into the context of religious values with the addition of the Unitarian Universalist and United Church of Christ companion publication, Sexuality and Our Faiith (PDF)The reasons sexuality education belongs in a religious setting are outlined in the brochure Sexuality is Honored Here (PDF).

Our Whole Lives users from other faith traditions are welcome to create their own companion document. Contact owl@uua.org for more information.

Our Whole Lives: Sexuality Education for Grades K - 1, Second Edition

By Marshall Miller, Dorian Solot

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Being reprinted - available for backorder. This second edition of Our Whole Lives, K-1 offers new and expansive ways of addressing gender identity and roles, sexual orientation, race, ability, and more for children and their families This is the secular version of Our Whole Lives for Grades K-1,...

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Teaching Young Children About Body Boundaries

"Teaching Young Children about Body Boundaries" (Vimeo, 5:31), a short video for parents and caregivers of K-1 children, is one of seven in the "Under Your Wing" series. Sexuality educators Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller, authors of the K-1 OWL program, share tips for conversation and home reading on topics children are curious about. Videos are available without captioning, with English captions, and with Spanish subtitles.

Dr. Melanie Davis sings while guest speaking at The UU Congregation at Montclair, NJ

Melanie Davis, Our Whole Lives Program Manager, owl@uua.org

OWL Lapel Pin

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Our Whole Lives Recognition Lapel Pin Please choose either Priority Mail shipping or UPS at checkout, if purchasing this item. We are not able to ship this merchandise via Value shipping. We will change the shipping and charge you accordingly if Value is chosen. Thank you!

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Peter Morales (L) and John Dorhauer, presidents, respectively, of the UUA and the United Church of Christ, backed by staff of both organizations, sign a Memorandum of Understanding to continue partnering on Our Whole Lives sexuality education.

The Rev. Peter Morales (L) and the Rev. John Dorhauer, presidents, respectively, of the UUA and the United Church of Christ, backed by staff of both organizations, sign a Memorandum of Understanding to continue partnering on Our Whole Lives sexuality education.