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Part of Hindsight, Humor, and Hope: Who, Me, an Elder?

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Introduction
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This workshop introduces the idea of elderhood as a creative and important time of life, a time to search inside, integrate experiences, and cultivate wisdom. Rituals and activities for the program, such as journaling, sharing blessings, and allowing for silence between speakers, will be...
Workshop-at-a-Glance
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Activity Minutes Welcoming and Entering 10 Lunch 20 Opening 10 Activity 1: Valuing Elderhood 10 Activity 2: The Good and Bad of Being Older 20 Activity 3: Spiritual Journaling 35 For Next Time 5 Closing 10...
Materials
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Coffee, tea, and water service items Tissues (for participant use) Newsprint, markers, and tape Chalice, candle, and lighter, or LED battery-operated candle Cloth and decorations for worship table: flowers, leaves, plant, small sculpture, or other decorative items Chime or bell for signaling time...
Preparation
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Arrange for coffee, tea, and water at the workshop. Arrange for furniture set-up: For large group: Place tables in a horseshoe arrangement (leaders at the head table, chairs around outside of tables)....
Lunch
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Activity time: 20 minutes Encourage participants to chat over lunch. As lunch draws to a close, distribute Handout 1, Over Sixty: The Good Life Comes with Old Age. With your co-leader or a volunteer, read the column aloud. Pace the reading; allow time for laughter.
Opening
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Activity time: 10 minutes Model personal introductions for the group by sharing your name and age. Invite participants to introduce themselves. You might say: As we go around the group, please say your name clearly and your years of life experience—also known as your age. This sets the tone for...
Activity 1: Valuing Elderhood
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Activity time: 10 minutes Share the contents of Leader Resource 1, Valuing Elderhood. Invite comments.
Activity 2: The Good and Bad of Being Older
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Activity time: 20 minutes Say: What comes to mind when you think of aging? Most likely there are some negative things. Invite the group to brainstorm a list of negative aspects of aging. Pace the brainstorm slowly so there is time for agreement, laughter, sadness, wistfulness, and other responses.
Activity 3: Spiritual Journaling
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Activity time: 35 minutes Introduce the activity with these or similar words: Today and every day, we are still evolving, still developing our inner self, which we call our spiritual self, our soul, the essence of our being....
For Next Time
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Activity time: 5 minutes Distribute Handout 2, Looking Ahead to Workshop 2. Go over its contents, and answer any questions.
Closing
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Activity time: 10 minutes Post the closing words so all can see them. Spread out Blessing Cards, text side down, and invite each participant to take one. Then take a card and read your blessing aloud. Invite participants in turn to share their blessings aloud. Allow a pause between each blessing.
Handout 1: Over Sixty: The Good Life Comes with Old Age
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By Donald M. Murray. Copyright 1996, in The Boston Globe. Reprinted by permission of The Rosenberg Group on behalf of the Author’s estate. I’m doing a class project on aging America. What’s it like to be a golden ager? Old. Excuse me? Not elderly, not senior citizen, never golden ager. I’m...
Handout 2: Looking Ahead to Workshop 2
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There are years that ask questions and years that answer. — Zora Neale Hurston For Next Time 1. Write in Your Journal Consider the most influential people in your life. Divide pages into thirds and title each third of a page with a decade; for example, birth to age 10, age 11-20, and so on. Then,...
Leader Resource 1: Valuing Elderhood
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Attitudes toward older people have varied—and continue to vary—across time and cultures. In some times and places, elders have enjoyed positive acceptance and embrace; in others, the reception has been negative. Traditional Near Eastern and Asian cultures revered their elders. The ancient Greeks...
Leader Resource 2: Blessing Cards
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