May I speak from my learning and not from my habit.

May I have the wisdom to be curious when I find myself grumbling about “them.”

Let it be said by generations to come that when the pain of our separation was revealed, we moved closer to the promised land of our beloved community.

A reflection from the Side With Love Sunday worship service.

Why do we so readily hand over what's priceless for a meager sum of money—or a major sum, for that matter?

Amidst the swirl of life's challenges, fears, and even moments of crisis, I make time to gaze at the night sky to see the vastness there, And to remember that this moment in time is but a flicker— Not an inconsequential flicker— For what I do and think now does matter. My work, though, is to let...

We seek blessed assurance through pandemic chaos, relentless loss, and unimaginable stress.

We matter and our actions matter in ways much broader and deeper than we could ever know.

We can be cheerleaders for people’s simple joys—even if we don’t share them.

I come from a long line of strong Black women. My grandmother used to share stories about how she caused “trouble” in town when a white man hired her to put up the displays in his store window. At that time, all the Black women in town worked as domestics in the homes of white ladies, or in the...

Goddess, Make me an instrument of peace Where there is hatred, let me know love Where there is injury, healing Where there is doubt, reassurance Where there is challenge, compassion Where there is pain, rest O Divine Mother, Grant that I may Not so much seek to control as to co-create, To be...

The first time I was told that I was too queer to be a congregation's minister, they asked, "What will the neighbors think?,” as if it were the most natural question in the world. It was then that I understood how grace works: it’s costly. It requires us to be uncomfortable, to get outside...

One of my most treasured New Year’s traditions is coming up with a word for the year: a single word that I want to be the theme for my entire year. When I’m questioning what’s the right thing to do, I will look to my word of the year for guidance.

I once saw a little sign, carved in wood, that read, “There is only the hard way.” Many of us have been harmed by theology that told us that suffering was a sacrifice that would bring us closer to God. Many of us were told that our suffering would redeem us, even when we knew that actual...

Coming out to my family was one of the hardest things I’ve had to do. I realized that my choice was one of life and death, and I needed to let my secret out in order to continue living, and to do so authentically.

The wellspring of decency is loving this life in which people die, people suffer, there are limits, and we make mistakes. The wellspring, then, of moral action is not utopia, not a counterfactual vision, not a declaration that the world could and should be otherwise....

At the core of Unitarian Universalism is the idea that my truth and your truth can both be true, even if they contradict each other.

‘I thought I had to be what other people wanted me to be, but it didn’t work.’