Rev. Dr. Debra W. Haffner (she/her/hers) has served our congregations in Hastings-on-Hudson; Westport, CT; Reston, VA; and is currently the Sabbatical Minister in Santa Cruz County. She is the President Emerita and co-founder of the Religious Institute. Her books includeBeyond the Big Talk,From Diapers to Dating, andWhat Every 21st-Century Parent Needs to Know. She is the creator of the Sexually Safer Best Practices Initiative used by the UUA.