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Conflicts can be scary when they threaten to rupture or divide our precious community connections and relationships with one another. But conflicts actually present great opportunities for building community by renewing covenants, recommitting to values, and clarifying our shared purpose.

Develop the Group Spiritual Practice of Covenant

Covenant Calls Us In: The Why of Covenant

By Safe Congregations Team

From LeaderLab

This training shares the history of covenant, theological and ethical concerns, how to think about accountability and responsibility, and some tools for transformation in your congregation.

Why of Covenant

Covenant Calls Us In: Living Into Behavioral Covenant (Training)

By Safe Congregations Team

From LeaderLab

This training helps you create your behavioral covenant, communicate its importance to your congregation members, and strategize to make your covenant come alive in your congregation

Living Covenant

Form and Train a Right Relationship Team

Resources for Congregational Right Relationship TeamsThe Tenders of the Covenant

By Tandi Rogers, Renee Ruchotzke

From LeaderLab

Our covenants articulate our intention, but how do we live into the practice? Right Relations Teams are lay leaders entrusted to help the congregation practice faithful communication and creative conflict based on values of mutuality and consent. 

RR Teams

More Resources on Congregational Covenants

A Congregational Covenant Keeps Conflicts Constructive

From The Congregational Handbook

Conflict can present great opportunities for creativity, growth and transformation. Our Covenants can guide us away from destructive behaviors.

Covenant Keeps Conflicts Constructive

We Can Coach You as You Work Through It!

Connect with Your UUA Regional Staff

Facing a transition, seeing a conflict, or celebrating an achievement? Your UUA primary contacts are here to companion, coach, and consult!

Connect with Your UUA Regional Staff