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Rayla D. Mattson

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Rayla D. Mattson serves as the Director of Religious Education for the Unitarian Society of Hartford (Connecticut). Outside of congregational life, she is raising her three beautiful children as a single mom.

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Braver/Wiser

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Everyone for Everyone

Rayla D. Mattson

From Braver/Wiser
Marginalized people can’t just want things to be different. It has to be everyone wanting things to be different for everyone.
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Big Shoes to Fill

Rayla D. Mattson

From Braver/Wiser
I appreciate the path that my grandfather paved but also recognize that I can add to his path in my own way and still honor the road he paved the way for.
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The Kindness of Others

Rayla D. Mattson

From Braver/Wiser
A white woman pulled over and ran over to me with a shopping bag. She smiled and drove away. As I looked down at the bag, I had very mixed emotions.
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The Strength That Defines Us

Rayla D. Mattson

From Braver/Wiser
My heart broke the day my son stood in the bathroom crying. He handed me a pair of scissors and told me to just cut it. I told him how beautiful his hair was and how sad I would be to see him cut it.
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No Longer Claiming "Divorced"

Rayla D. Mattson

From Braver/Wiser
I spent time feeling embarrassed—that somehow I had failed—because I had filed for divorce. It’s been over nine years now, and I wake up every single...
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Stopping to Help

Rayla D. Mattson

From Braver/Wiser
My oldest child was confused: why would no one stop and help us? Even though people weren’t stopping to help us, my son said, he wanted to be more like...
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I Ride Bus

Rayla D. Mattson

From Braver/Wiser
“It takes a village to raise a child. It takes a child with autism to raise the consciousness of the village.” —Elaine Hall, educator and parenting...

Call and Response

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Parenting with Heartbreak

Rayla D. Mattson

From Call and Response
In a pandemic, amid outcry over police murders of Black people, how can a mother address the gravity of these traumas without sending children into despair

LeaderLab

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Parenting with Heartbreak

Rayla D. Mattson

From LeaderLab
In a pandemic, amid outcry over police murders of black people, how can a mother address the gravity of these traumas without sending children into despair

WorshipWeb

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Centering Myself

Rayla D. Mattson

From WorshipWeb
I come from a long line of strong Black women. My grandmother used to share stories about how she caused “trouble” in town when a white man hired her...

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