A Guide to Planning Online Memorial Services During a Pandemic
By Renee Ruchotzke
A Funeral or Memorial Service is a rite of passage when people gather together to mourn and memorialize the person who has died. During a pandemic, when physical presence is not possible, we can still do our best to create time and space to gather in virtual space until such time that a physical gathering is possible.
It is important to hold yourselves gently in taking this on. There is no right way of doing this, and it can’t possibly have the same richness of an in-person service. Think of this as an early step in a grieving process where there will be an opportunity to experience a deeper, in-person service in the future.
What follows are resources and ideas to help you plan while accommodating the limitations of not being in person.
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Memorials and Funerals in Times of Physical Distancing
Sarah Gibb Millspaugh
From LeaderLabWhen authorities limit in-person gatherings to 25 or 10 or even fewer people, it necessarily affects our capacity to hold funerals and memorial services….
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Technical Tips for Conducting Online Memorials
Sarah Gibb Millspaugh
From LeaderLabHow can we adapt something we usually do in person—memorial services and celebrations of life—to happen online over videoconference? It’s a question that many of our congregations are facing as we contend with COVID-19 and restrictions on gathering. Some of the challenges are identical to…
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Planning In-Person Memorial Services When Restrictions are Lifted
Sarah Gibb Millspaugh
From LeaderLabWhen restrictions on gathering are lifted, many congregations will have several memorial services they will need to schedule and hold. This page offers tips for planning services smoothly, so that the focus can be on pastoral care and grief support.
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Tips for Designing Worship Elements for Online Memorial Services
Renee Ruchotzke
From LeaderLabWhen designing an online memorial service there are some worshipful elements that can enhance the experience.
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What Do We Do Now? A Faith Formation Response to Death During a Global Pandemic
Mark Hicks
From LeaderLabWhen his brother died of COVID-19, Mark Hicks helped to plan a meaningful memorial for his family. This is his story.
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Working with the Primary Mourners to Plan an Online Memorial Service
Renee Ruchotzke
From LeaderLabIn order to create a memorial service that is meaningful, you will want to spend “slow time” with those who were closest to the deceased. Your gift of listening is an important part of spiritual care for the bereaved.
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