Scorekeeping is about who hurts whom more. In the long-term, no one wins.

I wasn’t really “born this way.” I grew this way.

Conflict resolution is in fact one of the greatest things that you can accomplish in your life and in your relationship. [W]hen I view people as not bringing conflict up, I think it’s being unfaithful to the relationship. I think it’s an abdication of your role in the relationship, and you are...

Uncertain as the world feels right now, love will bear whatever lies ahead.

"Marriage isn’t meant to make you happy; marriage is there so that it gives you a life in which you find happiness."...

There was a period in my life when, within three months, all my major relationships changed. The most joyous of these was getting married; Sarah and I had dated for three and a half years, and I proposed to her at our holiday party....

As years go by and passions cool, we make love in places that young lovers only dream about. We make love at the kitchen table, a Scrabble board the mattress and hints to help the other our passionate kisses. We make love in the car, thrilling to beautiful scenery or a rarely seen wild animal. We...