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I suppose there are several reasons why money seems to be anathema to
ministers and their congregations. I think one of the reasons is found in the
naiveté by which many ministers approach the subject. Many are idealistic.
Christians have struggled for centuries what to do with Jesus' command to the
young rich man, "…go sell what you own, and give the money to the poor, and
you will have treasure in heaven, then come follow me." (Mark 10:21)
Many believe that this is a literal command and few have thought that Jesus may
well have had is tongue planted firmly in his cheek when he said it.
While many wonder what to make of this story it is the same minister who must
come before his or her congregation and beg for more money to raise the budget
or pay for the most recent repair bill. The fact of the matter is that many
ministers do not know how to read a budget statement or understand concepts as
simple as cash flow.
When I taught church administration at Phillips Theological Seminary, there
were very few students who were glad to be in the class. Some waited until their
senior year to take the required course. Many thought the work of finance and
administration was drudgery and not really what they went into the ministry for.
At the same time I have met many lay people who get elected to the church's
board of trustees and are disturbed at the amount of time the board spends on
finances, personnel, maintenance, and administration. They seldom serve their
Perhaps there has been too much scandal around money and church. Jesus threw
the moneychangers out of the temple, but we note that he called Judas to be the
treasurer for his little band of apostles. The same Judas would betray Jesus for
30 pieces of silver.
If you read the book of Acts carefully you will realize that the very first
fight in the Christian church was about money. The question was how to
distribute alms to the poor. Some of the widows were not certain that they were
getting their fair cut. Money is often the reason why churches are still
fighting. The New Testament letters of Timothy and Titus stipulate that bishops
must not be greedy for money.
Timothy wrote, "For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil, and
in their eagerness to be rich some have wandered away from the faith and pierced
themselves with many pains." (I Tim. 6:10) The King James Version uses the
term "filthy lucre."
Stories abound of ministers who ran off with the church's money. There are
ministers who equate faith with prosperity, or push prayer cloths or religious
bric-a-brac in exchange for financial contributions. They offend us mightily.
And who can forget the money schemes of Jim and Tammy Faye Baker and the people
who lost their entire life savings because of them?
Churches trust too much, and we want it that way, but when we discover that
the funds have been purloined we are disillusioned. Church books are never
audited enough, financial and management practices are often questionable, and
there never seems to be enough money. Every time you turn around the church has
its hand out for more money. Think of all of those book sales, spaghetti
suppers, car washes, and bake sales. There are some people who, quite
frankly, are not sure that their gifts to the church earn enough return. Putting
money in the offering plate is not like investing in a mutual fund, where slow
but certain growth is a reasonable expectation. We are often not sure what the
benefits or rewards are for our contributions to the church. There are a number
of people who shudder when they realize that over 50% of all church budgets are
designated for salaries. They are not sure what it is that those people do, or
why we need them all in the first place.
There are few quantifiable and objective results that are obvious to the
average person. These same people might be surprised to know that church
professionals and support staff also wonder what good they have done lately and
who really appreciates the 50-hour work week they are giving to the
congregation. Other people use money as a way to influence the decisions of the
church. Some withhold their financial support because they do not like the
minister or are angry because the painted the sanctuary antique white instead of
cream. They seldom realize that the people who are hurt by withholding a pledge
include all of the staff who did not get a raise, or whose benefits were
Another reason why churches are in denial about money is because money is too
close to our real values. Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote that, "Political Economy
is as good a book wherein to read the life of a man and the ascendancy of laws
over all private and hostile influences, as any Bible which has come down to
In other words, you cannot determine a person's character by how often he or
she opens the Good Book. Their values are more accurately displayed in their
checkbook. What we spend our money on speaks volumes about what we really
We are uncomfortable talking about money because we often feel - or are made
to feel - guilty about the fact that by the world's standards we are wealthy
people. There is not a single person in this room, no matter how modest their
income, who is not rich in comparison to women and men in third and fourth world
countries. Most of us will consume in one week more protein than some people
will consume in a year. We are sensitive to the suggestion of classism and we
are not certain what to do when the Unitarian Universalist Association exhorts
us to economic justice.
The fact of the matter is that the average American family is only three
paychecks away from financial insolvency. The greatest stress on most marriages
is financial, especially revolving credit debt. American family incomes,
adjusted for inflation, are no longer growing. In the 1960's family incomes grew
about 3% annually. Since the 1980's they have not grown at all. We are not
certain what to do about the paradox of our relative wealth and precarious
financial security. And quite frankly, the church has done little to teach us
real stewardship or speak honestly about the place of money in our lives.
The church's stewardship campaign is about the church's money and seems
remote from our personal finances. We only get the message that we should give
more and the church seems out of touch with our financial realities. Robert
Wuthnow, one of the best sociologists of religion in America, has persuasively
argued that American churches are in economic crises, especially the gap between
revenue and expenditures. "Revenues are dropping off," wrote Wuthnow,
"especially when giving is adjusted for inflation or is considered in
relation to family incomes. Just as this decrease is happening, the need for
resources has never been greater. Increasing numbers of disadvantaged people are
looking to the churches for help. The churches are being asked to fill
the gaps left by cuts in government welfare programs. Staff salaries are
squeezed. Old buildings are in disrepair. New congregants are needed."
This description not only reveals the struggle of First Unitarian Church of
Toledo on Collingwood Boulevard, but most of the other churches on Collingwood
There are two reasons why we are in this predicament, and both reasons are
related to one another. The first is that most people are struggling with their
own financial needs and do not see how the church is related to them. The church
has not taken seriously the stewardship of families and how her families may
prosper financially. The average family does not see a relationship between
their own financial struggles and the ministry of the church. The second and
related issue is the failure of the church to help people connect their money
with their values - their hard earned income with the characteristics of life
they deem important. There is a spiritual malaise in our congregations because
we have disconnected our financial security from our most cherished convictions.
I do not propose in one sermon to solve this problem. I do propose to
initiate a conversation that will lead us to a stewardship of our best Unitarian
Universalist principles with our financial well being. I propose that we bless
money talk, and agree that we will talk about it. It means that we can plan
religious education that promotes financial well being in the families of our
parish. We can teach people about budgets that reflect their values and their
dreams. We can teach people techniques such as debt stacking to work their way
out of debt. We can teach people that living means giving and how we can do that
and pay for our children's college education. It means that we can talk openly
and honestly about our church's financial needs, how to manage our endowment
responsibly, and how we can expand the ministry of the church to meet the
spiritual needs of future generations.
As a modest beginning let me state that money is not evil. Wealth is
not evil. Earning money or gaining wealth is not evil. Indeed, to
eliminate money would require the demise of human civilization and a return to
the Bronze Age. The fact of the matter is that each of us is a consumer. From
the moment we are conceived we consume. Is it even possible to fully calculate
how much food and water we consume, the clothes we require, the shelter we
demand, the education we esteem, and the health care we necessitate?
Emerson suggested that by our very human constitution we are expensive and we
thus need to be rich.3 This is what it means to be a human being, and
it requires that we must make money to secure the expensive habit of being
alive. If we do not, we are faced with the terrible agony of begging for food,
suffering, starvation, and exposure to the elements, and wandering lost without
friends. This is the nature of things; indeed, it amounts to one of those
natural laws that not one of us can escape.
But the fact of the matter is few people are satisfied with subsistence
living. Beans and bread in a lowly tenement building hardly satiates the human
hunger for knowledge, modern conveniences, even the arts. I have never met a
person living in Section VIII housing who was content to stay there. Everyone
dreams of owning their own home. Most people I know who live in school districts
that are failing would move quickly to a better suburban school, if they could
afford it. Or they would put their children in a private school. I have never
known a parent who did not seek for their children the best advantages they
could possibly obtain. Loyalty to race, or the city, or the old neighborhood
quickly fades with the possibility of economic or educational advantage. I
submit to you that all of us are inclined to seek the best for ourselves and our
families. It is natural, and I dare submit that it follows some natural law to
protect and provide for our young.
If our religious or political ideologies have suggested that the quest for
financial security and well being are misguided, wrong, or sinful, I submit that
such ideologies violate a realistic understanding of human nature. They will
inevitably fail. It is not money - or the quest for money - that disrupts and
distorts us. It is the idolatry of money - or the gain of money by corrupt means
- that is wrong. Human beings become broken when we worship the golden calf or
our stocks and bonds. King Midas was a fool who became greedy and valued
everything against the standard of gold, even the life of his daughter. "Lucre"
simply means "gain" or "wealth," but it becomes "filthy lucre" when it is
achieved by oppression, usury, theft, fraud, or extortion. "Society is
barbarous until every industrious man can get his living without dishonest
customs," said Mr. Emerson.4
Money provides opportunities for us to better our own condition and enjoy the
finer fruits of life. We can make our own place in the world, live within our
means, and at the same time contribute to the common good of all persons. We
cannot speak about the UU principle affirming the inherent worth and dignity of
every person, if that person cannot sustain his or her family. One of the most
devastating problems with poverty is that it limits or denies the poor the
opportunity to be generous. Manipulating credit debts hardly enhances our
dignity. Cajoling bill collectors is less than noble.
Human existence requires that we consume and that we take. We take from
nature's bounty and the work of other persons. We are the recipients of the
abundance of generosity of people we have never met or are even conscious of.
But we do not have to give. Taking is a necessity, but giving is a choice. I
submit that it is in giving that we experience our true freedom as human beings.
We can choose what we give our money to and where we invest our time and energy.
It is in our giving that we create and define our lives and the values that
Dr. Karl Menninger said, "Money giving is a symptom of a person's mental
health. Generous people are seldom mentally ill." By sharing our substance
we give new life that will feed many people for years to come. It may be a
library that will feed the mind; or a museum that will feed the imagination; or
a church that will feed the soul of people, stirring them to justice and
William Ellery Channing wrote, "How much may be done in this city to
spread knowledge, vigor of thought, the sense of beauty, the pleasures of the
imagination and the fine arts, and, above all, the influences of religion,
through our whole community! Were the prosperous and educated to learn that,
after providing for their families, they cannot better employ their possessions
and influence than in forwarding the improvement and elevation of society, how
soon would this city be regenerated."5 Money is replete with many
opportunities to create a better society. They are golden opportunities that
will expand the vision of our fellow citizens, inviting them into a world of
thought and beauty.
This is just the beginning of a long conversation. Money touches our
self-esteem and our sense of security as families and as a church family. Money
has tremendous influence on our personal success and our congregational success.
I hope that in this conversation we will not feel ashamed or embarrassed or
fearful. I hope we will not feel arrogant or self-pitying. I hope that we will
appreciate the strengths and the limits of money in the life of our religious
community. The church is not a business, but it does not have to be stupid in
terms of financial management. May we be ever aware that the stewardship of our
resources is a mark of maturity and wisdom. For out of the stewardship of our
largess our most important values are represented.
1Ralph Waldo Emerson, "Wealth," The Conduct of Life; from The
Complete Works of Ralph Waldo Emerson; Houghton, Mifflin and Co.; (Boston: 1904)
Vol. VI, p. 101. 2 Robert Wuthnow, The Crisis in the Churches: Spiritual
Malaise, Fiscal Woe; Oxford University Press (New York: 1997), p.
11.3 Emerson, p.85.4 Ibid.5 William
Ellery Channing, "Address on Temperance," Channing's Works; American Unitarian
Association, (Boston: 1886), p. 107.
© Dr. Gary BlaineFirst Unitarian Church of ToledoToledo, Ohio
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