oh geez I really have to pee all right
what am I feeling today the women's room
is likely to smell better and be cleaner
men are disgusting but what if there's
someone in there with my beard they'll
see me as a man and I might freak out a
lot of women don't feel safe for the man
in the women's room and I'd be horribly
embarrassed my RSD can't handle that
today I'll go to the men's but my tits
are out I didn't wear a binder today
what if there's someone in there and
they see them what if they think I'm a
freak men can be really hostile what if
they beat me up
I don't want to make anyone else feel
unsafe but I don't want to be unsafe so
what do I do
so that's the situation I've been in a
lot
yeah
honestly a lot of the times there isn't
a best option
yeah
you know do you want to get
pen pack or do you want to remember this
whole yeah
I mean if you think about it you're kind
of risk the assault in any situation
because it's not like women can't beat
you up you know because they're they're
just less likely yeah
well I was going to hit you with a purse
maybe
oh
call the cops yeah go get a man to beat
you up for them
really hard to know
if
you're in the right place
I mean I'm lucky in that I've never been
beat up in a bathroom but I've also
changed my bathroom habits so that I
don't go when I'm out and about you know
what I mean I only go when I'm safe
somewhere at home
it's
I know I think you've told me that
you've been assaulted in a bathroom or
over bathroom twice before right yeah
very
um
not knowing if
this person's screaming at you is going
to escalate we're going to
try and leave the best course of action
or if you should like lock yourself
yeah you know there's just no good
solution
but
in places where there are damaged to a
bathroom
where it's just go wherever
well and I've seen CIS women especially
CIS women but also some CIS men get
challenged in the bathrooms like I've
heard stories about you know
it doesn't matter what you're packing
what matters is do you look like you
belong and you know a lot of Butch
lesbians look more masculine and so
people might think that they're poorly
passing trans women and assault them you
know right next thing you know you're
policing everyone's gender expression to
see if it's feminine enough next thing
you know you know they're checking if
you're wearing pants or not you know
what I mean like and
or a child or a child or
uh
just you know
your friend to them and one of the books
off a little more than the other one
mm-hmm
so honestly get your entry bathrooms are
just
a really safe and easy
honestly it's like 20 bucks to change
the size we have that
and
sight word yeah
cool well let's see what gender neutral
bathrooms would look like in this
situation
let's see what New York left today I
haven't been here before so
we need some men experiments of men's
let's see yeah okay thank you oh wait
what's this
stalls and urinals stalls oh well that's
easy enough excellent