Participants (Windows and Mirrors)
This program is written for fourth- and fifth-grade children. You may find it useful to think about the developmental norms for this age group. Not all children arrive at each developmental stage at the same time, but knowing what to expect overall can be quite helpful, especially to first-time leaders.
In her book, Nurturing Children and Youth: A Developmental Guidebook ( Boston : Unitarian Universalist Association, 2005), Tracey L. Hurd lists characteristics of the older school-age child:
- Uses gross and fine motor skills, which are almost fully developed
- Enters puberty toward the end of school-age years (particularly girls)
- Is influenced by media images
- Engages in logical thinking
- Practices cognitive skills of acquiring, storing, and retrieving information
- Develops specific learning styles (auditory, visual, sensory, and/or kinesthetic)
- Exhibits domain-specific intelligence (verbal/linguistic, musical/rhythmic, local/mathematical, visual/spatial, bodily-kinesthetic, interpersonal, intrapersonal, or naturalist)
- Engages in gender-specific play.
Faith Development Skills
- Uses student identity and knowledge as sources of self-esteem
- Engages peers and learns through mutual friendship
- Comprehends the perspective of others
- Works on developing racial, ethnic and gender identities and seeks peers' affirmation of these identities
- Shows interest in concrete aspects of faith and religion
- "Does" religion or spirituality by participating in traditions
- Explores religious or spiritual ideas as a way of deepening faith.
- Interested in moral issues/ what is fair and right
- Practices figuring out what is fair when developing rules
- Moral decision making is complex
- Practices reconciling moral ideals with pragmatic realities
- Demonstrates interest in broader moral issues
- Reconciles the violence of the world with personal own moral code (e.g., violent video games)
- Interest in knowing and living out moral ideas
- Uses the Golden Rule (treat others as you would like to be treated)
- Wrestles with moral dilemmas in relationships
- Demonstrates awareness of societal moral issues and interest in helping to solve community problems
- Ponders increasingly complex moral and spiritual questions.
Integrating All Participants
A group can include children with a range of physical and cognitive abilities and learning styles, food allergies, and other sensitivities or limitations. Adapt activities or use alternate activities to ensure that every session is inclusive of all participants.
Be especially mindful of visually impaired participants in this program. Windows and Mirrors uses visual metaphors. Yet, you are often guided, and should always remember, to think and speak broadly about looking, seeing and reflecting.
Activities can generally be adapted to incorporate tactile and other sensory ways of "looking." Find specific adaptations in many activities' Including All Participants sections.
Help visually impaired participants engage with the ongoing Window/Mirror Panel project by providing a variety of tactile materials for everyone's use. For example, include cotton balls, wooden craft sticks, pipe cleaners and craft glue to the baskets of Window/Mirror Panel arts and crafts materials. Obtain foam pre-cut in shapes and sheets of stickers with both the image and shape of common objects. Make sure you plan a tactile component for your collective Window/Mirror Panel exhibit.
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Last updated on Thursday, October 27, 2011.
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