• Stoles
• Craft materials
• Optional: Leader Resource 3, Second Emblem

• Print copies of Leader Resource 3 and cut out a Second Emblem image for each child, including extra for newcomers. Alternatively, copy for all participants an emblem of your own design that symbolizes "looking for signs in my relationships."
• Optional: Gather and set out craft materials for children to create their own emblems for "signs in my relationships." This emblem might simply say "You + Me" with room for children to decorate around the words. Find suggestions for guiding this process in the Before You Start section of this program's Introduction.

Children add an emblem to their stole.

This emblem represents "looking for signs in my relationships." It is based on the experiences children have had in the second unit of this program (Sessions 5-8).

Lead children to make emblems (optional) and attach the emblems to their stoles.

Have children help put away the craft materials they have used. Invite them to set their stoles nearby to wear during the memorial service-the next activity.