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Handout 1: Saying "i Love You" Without The Usual Words

  • Bring home a small gift for your partner, for no reason at all.
  • Plan a surprise weekend away. It doesn't have to be far away or expensive, as long as it's just the two of you.
  • Leave a message on your partner's voice mail saying how important that person is in your life.
  • Do a chore your partner usually does without being asked to help.
  • Serve breakfast, coffee, or tea in bed . . . anytime.
  • Hug your partner or rub your partner's shoulders without expecting it to lead to sexual activity.
  • Mail your partner a love letter (don't e-mail it).
  • Tell your partner's family how much you admire your partner and why.
  • Be courteous — open doors, hold chairs, take your partner's coat at the end of the day, say "please," "thank you," and "you're welcome."
  • Flirt with your partner, regardless of how long you've been together.
  • Cuddle while watching TV . . . and let your partner control the remote.
  • While your partner's in the tub or shower, toss a bath towel in the dryer so you can wrap your partner in toasty warmth.

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Last updated on Saturday, October 29, 2011.

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