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Marriage Equality

"Today, our Unitarian Universalist faith has long since taken the lead among all other denominations with respect to Gay rights. We have hundreds of openly Gay ordained clergy. We have solemnized thousands of Gay union services. It is right that we should once again take the lead with regard to extending the full rights and privileges of marriage to all our citizens."
—Rev. Forrest Church (from his sermon The Meanings of Marriage)

Unitarian Universalists (UUs) believe that the First Principle of our faith, respecting "the inherent worth and dignity of every person", applies equally to people of all sexual orientations and gender identities. UU congregations and clergy have long recognized and celebrated same-sex marriages within our faith tradition. Since 1973, when we established the Office of Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian, and Transgender Concerns (now Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer Ministries) the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA) has made an institutional commitment to full equality for bisexual, gay, lesbian, transgender, and queer-identified people.

We recognize that full equality can only be achieved when it is recognized legally in society. Working for full equality for bisexual, gay, lesbian, transgender and queer persons is one of our highest legislative priorities. Marriage equality for same-sex couples has taken the forefront in recent years.

In 2013, thirteen states, California, Connecticut, Delaware, Iowa, Maryland, Maine, Massachusetts, Minnesota, New Hampshire, New York, Rhode Island, Vermont and Washington, and the District of Columbia, have recognized same-sex marriage. In addition, Hawaii, Illinois, New Jersey have passed civil union legislation and Colorado, Nevada, New Mexico, Oregon, and Wisconsin have domestic partnership laws.

In every one of these cases, Unitarian Universalists have led the way. We have filed court cases, joined amicus curiae briefs, written, petitioned, visited, and called legislators, made 1-on-1 visits with friends, family members, and strangers, staffed phone banks, held press conferences, conducted worship services, and everything else needed to make marriage equality a reality in these states. In fact, UUA staff member, Hillary Goodridge was the named plaintiff in the Massachusetts marriage case (Goodridge vs the Dept of Public Health: Legal at Last) that paved the way for marriage equality in other states.

The United States Supreme Court rulings on June 26, 2013, which found the Defense of Marriage Act unconstitutional and found that the California Prop 8 case had no standing, essentially overturning it, will have far-reaching effects on marriage equality. In each of these cases, the UUA joined amicus briefs. In Hollingsworth v. Perry, the California Proposition 8 case, we joined the California Council of Churches/California Faith for Equality/Unitarian Universalist Legislative Ministry California amicus brief.

We invite you to learn more about Unitarian Universalism and our commitment to create a loving community where everyone is welcome. Read our Unitarian Universalist Perspectives on Affirming Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian and Transgender equality and other issues at the intersection of religion and society, find a UU congregation near you, and visit, our denominational periodical on the web.

NEW! UUA President Issues Statement on Historic Decisions on Marriage Equality, June 26, 2013

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In response to the passage of Proposition 8 in California in 2008, the UUA, along with the Unitarian Universalist Legislative Ministry of California (UULM-CA), the California Council of Churches, and other religious leaders and faith organizations, filed an amicus curiae brief (PDF, 56 pages) with the California Supreme Court on January 14, 2009, asking the court to invalidate Proposition 8.

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Last updated on Tuesday, December 3, 2013.

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Julie and Hillary Goodridge. The Goodridges were the lead plaintiffs in the landmark case Goodridge v. the Massachusetts Dept. of Health which gained same sex couples the freedom to legally marry in Massachusetts in 2004.  The couple was married at the UUA Headquarters at 25 Beacon in Boston.
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People gather at a rally for marriage equality with signs like, 'Equal Love, Equal Rights,' and 'Strong Families Make Strong Communities.' Photo courtesy Sue Ellen Tuttle.

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Faith leaders from many traditions gathered at the HRC Clergy Call 2009.

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